A
hole seemed to rip in my heart as of recent. My mother, who gave to me my first
bonsai at 16, passed on. She is attributed as an inspiration throughout my life
shaping me into much of who I am today. Letting me grow on my own when needed
and assisting me when I was out of line so to speak (that “you’ll wish you had
listened” rings so true..). Much of what I learned I will eventually leave
myself to the hands of another. Shaping when necessary and left to grow its own
way when needed. Never pushing it to one side or the other rather letting
nature and nurture combine in harmony merely assisting in smoothing the rough
edges.
Her willingness to let both my brother and I
both take the direction we chose. She emphasized that whatever we may do we do
with a whole hearted commitment and giving it our all. He and I turned out the polar opposite of each other. Day and
night is putting it very lightly. As for Mom, she would not have had it any
other way it seemed. We became who we are because of the support, moral
cornerstone she provided and letting us pursue what we felt in our hearts we
wanted and were devoted to and passionate about. He is the Wall Street type where
I am the Main Street. He speed on his life’s highway where I blazed my trial off
of the dirt road (literally at times).
Growing up I can’t say I remember any
friends that didn’t simply call her Mom. Everyone was family. She really had no
knowledge of bonsai though provided me with the same attributes I applied to my
own life as I did my work. A portrait, as is a Picasso, is art, it’s just what
my senses and vision may dictate part of how my tree(s) ultimately grow.
Following its natural movement and compliment with time, patients and a whole
lot of blind faith. Some I like the natural untouched look and others as twisty
and as contorted as possible. Some like the straight and true formal upright. Neither
is wrong nor right. It’s how the tree inspires you to grow… It trains you as much
as you do it.
For those of you who follow this I greatly
appreciate your interest and patience. I had a lot of calls recently and was
unable to get back to some and other unfortunately, I didn’t. For that I
greatly apologize. Come September 20th (Saturday) I will resume appointments
and visits. I have been very excited to show off new materials both bonsai and
Japanese maples. A huge selection of pottery and tools as well. I have had exponential
growth and selection that rivals anything I have had since around 2004. With that
said please feel free to call (leave a name and number if you get voicemail) or
email me at redmaplenurserys@gmail.com
The Fall promises to be a burst of color and diversity like no other! Thank you
all!
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